martedì 26 gennaio 2010

How to use the attraction law for your dating online? (10 things to know)


If you never heard about attraction law it's time to learn something really interesting...

It works, it's powerfull and could be your secret weapon for your online dating!



10 important things to know about it:

1. BE POSITIVE ABOUT LOVE
Challenge your negative beliefs about dating. Take a piece of paper and write down every limiting belief that you have about dating and the opposite and find an exception to it. These beliefs could be holding you back from letting love in.

2. LIKE YOURSELF
Dating often makes us feel miserable because we judge ourselves the whole time. Remind yourself why you are a good catch and speak to yourself in a way that works. Everyone has things to improve on ... but there are so many wonderful things about you.

3. FLOW POSITIVE ENERGY TO ALL DATES
Look for something good about all your dates. You don't have to marry him. We often judge our date from the first minute. Notice when you do this, take a deep breath and allow yourself to look for something good so you both enjoy your time together even more.

4. BE OPEN TO POSSIBILITY
It takes a while to know what is going on with anything in life, so let things evolve. Notice when you do this and be willing to be surprised. Keep busy with your own life and let things happen over time.

5. HAVE A POWERFUL DATING CONTEXT
Most people consider dating a necessary misery. If expectations create outcomes, why not expect to have fun? Create a dating context that will serve you no matter what happens. For example, 'I will learn something valuable from every person I meet.' Then make it your business to do so.

6. TRY NEW THINGS
Date outside your comfort zone and be willing to give different people a chance. Dating requires some adventure. Think 'outside the box' and be willing to try at least 5 new approaches in dating and meet new types of dates.

7. RECEIVE: LEARN FROM EVERYONE
Everyone you meet is a master in disguise. We are all here to learn. Often people think that dating is a waste of time when they do not meet 'Mr. or Mrs. Right' but you never know why you meet someone. Think of one way that date taught you something that you can take with you.

8. SHARE WHAT YOU LOVE
It is easy to be shy and protective before you know someone but practice revealing yourself on dates. People are their best when discussing something they love, whether it is their job, volunteer work, travel etc. Let yourself be known and the right mate will stick around.

9. BE WILLING TO BE SURPRISED
Do not assume you can tell who someone is from their appearance. If you look for what lights someone up, you will leave them feeling great and you will enjoy your time more too.

10. TAKE ACTION ON WHAT YOU WANT
Walk your talk when it comes to love. So many singles think they can just sit around in their pajamas and the right person will ring their bell and find them. If you want to meet a great companion then you need to go out! Make a choice to go to social functions, classes etc at least twice a week if you really want to meet your life mate.

1 commento:

  1. I have gone through the article really its nice its shows how important is to save our relationship. Keep posting great work.

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